Be motivated

Y ou may never look at a cup of coffee the same way again! A young woman told her mother how difficult things were for her. She did not know how she was going to make it and felt like giving up. Her mother took her to the kitchen and filled three pots with water. Soon the water started boiling. In the first pot, she placed carrots. In the second, she put eggs. And in the third, she placed coffee beans. She let them sit and boil. In about twenty minutes, she turned off the burners. She fished the carrots out and placed them on a plate. She pulled the eggs out and placed them in a bowl. Then she ladled the coffee out and placed it in a mug. Turning to her daughter, she asked, “What do you see?” “Carrots, eggs, and coffee,” her daughter replied. Her mother handed her some carrots. They were soft. The mother then asked the daughter to take an egg and break it. After pulling off the shell, she observed that the egg was now hard boiled. Then the mother asked the daugh...

O nce upon a time, there was a little donkey that lived on a ranch. The little donkey spent all of his time in a pen with his grandfather. One day, the little donkey said, “Grandpa, I want to grow up to be big and strong like you. What do I have to do?” Grandpa said, “All you have to do is learn how to shake it off and step up.” That confused the little donkey so he asked his grandfather what that meant. Grandpa said, “Let me tell you a classic short motivational story! One day, when I was just about your age, I was right here in this pen when someone left the gate open by mistake. Well, I escaped and started walking out on the prairie. I was admiring the big mountains and the huge sky. Then, all of a sudden, when I wasn’t looking at where I was going, I fell into an old, abandoned well. I was trapped at the bottom of the well, scared to death, thinking I was going to die. I was the donkey in the well. Then, within a few minutes, I heard a truck and looked up and sa...

T here once was a little boy who had a bad temper. His Father gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper, he must hammer a nail into the back of the fence. The first day the boy had driven 37 nails into the fence. Over the next few weeks, as he learned to control his anger, the number of nails hammered daily gradually dwindled down. He discovered it was easier to hold his temper than to drive those nails into the fence. Finally the day came when the boy didn’t lose his temper at all. He told his father about it and the father suggested that the boy now pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold his temper. The days passed and the young boy was finally able to tell his father that all the nails were gone. The father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence. He said, ‘You’ve done well, my son, but look at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same. When you say things in anger, they leave a s...

Michael Sylvester Gardenzio Stallone was born on July 6, 1946 in New York City.  His father was a hairdresser and his mother was a former dancer.  His mother, Jackie, had such difficulty in childbirth that forceps had to be used to assist in Sylvester’s delivery.  His signature sneer and his unidentifiable accent, which is actually slurred speech, were the result of the nerve damage caused by the incident. Sly, along with his younger brother Frank, was raised in a hostile environment.  His parents fought a lot and later divorced.  He was not shown much affection in his home, either. He recalled his mother telling him that he didn’t have a body he could work with and, on a separate occasion, his father even told him that he didn’t have a brain.    Stallone was emotionally deprived of parents, and he did not do well in school. As a matter of fact, he was expelled from school thrice.  To make matters worse, after his parents got a divor...

"Motivation  is defined as the process that initiates, guides, and maintains goal-oriented behaviors.  Motivation  is what causes you to act, whether it is getting a glass of water to reduce thirst or reading a book to gain knowledge." Below you can see the definition of motivation by different authors: - “Motivation is defined as the performance of an activity because it is perceived to be instrumental in achieving valued outcomes” (Teo, Lim, & Lai, 1999). “Motivation is defined as the power that triggers action that follows” (Cheng, & Cheng, 2012). Furthermore, “Motivation can be defined as everything that drives and sustains human behavior” (Gard, 2001). “Motivation may be defined as the degree to which individuals commit effort to achieve goals that they perceive as being meaningful and worthwhile” "Motivation can be defined as the desire to achieve some” goal (Hays, & Hill, 2001). Addition...